Child Custody

Westlake Village Child Custody Lawyer

Advocating Legal Rights for Parents Through Ventura County, California

Child custody can be one of the most heated issues in a divorce

Even if you want to work things out without a lawyer, it is common for such conversations to escalate into battles over parenting time, visitation, and custody as a whole.

At Richard Ross Associates, we strive to help divorcing parents reach arrangements that work for them and their children.

Do I Need a Lawyer for Child Custody in California?

Having a lawyer represent you in a child custody case is a good idea. A lawyer can help you understand your legal rights and options, protect your interests, and advocate for your child's best interests.

Call (805) 777-1011 to schedule a consultation with a California certified family law specialist! Call (805) 777-1011 today.

How Is Child Custody Determined in California?

Child custody is determined according to what is in the "best interest of the child."

There is no statutory definition of “best interest of the child.” Cal. Rules of Court, rule 5.2 (b)(7) defines the “best interest of the child” as it is described in Family Code §3011. 

Unfortunately, that statute does not contain a definition, only a list of factors to be considered, such as domestic violence

The principle of the best interests of the child is the sine qua non of the family law process governing disputes. 

'Although a parent's interest in the care, custody and companionship of a child is a liberty interest that may not be interfered with in the absence of a compelling state interest, the welfare of a child is a compelling state interest that a state has not only a right, but a duty, to protect.' … 'It is evident beyond the need for elaboration that a State's interest in "safeguarding the physical and psychological well-being of a minor" is "compelling."'

How Does a Judge Decide Custody in California?

In California, a judge considers factors such as:

  • The child's age, health, and sex
  • The child's emotional ties to their parents
  • The child's ties to their school, home, and community
  • The child's preference, if they are of sufficient age to express an intelligent opinion
  • The child's health, safety, and welfare
  • The child's ability to support themselves
  • The child's history of family violence
  • The child's history of substance abuse
  • The child's current living environment

It is usually best to memorialize an agreement or court determination regarding custody in a well-drafted court order signed by a judge. 

A child custody order should always take into consideration what is in the children’s best interests, considering all relevant facts. 

Where parents cannot do so themselves, a California judge will make an order for the children upon proper request.

Types of Child Custody

In California, there are two types of custody: 

  • Physical custody: Where and with whom the children will physically reside, sometimes referred to as a parenting plan. 
  • Legal custody: Focuses on the health, education, and welfare of the children. In other words, which parent will be responsible for making decisions for the children regarding medical care, schooling, activities, religion, and more.

Sole vs. Joint Physical Custody in California

When deciding custody, the court generally considers four variations:

  • Sole physical custody: The child shall reside with and be under the supervision of one parent, subject to the power of the court to order visitation." (Fam. Code §3007.)
  • Sole legal custody: One parent shall have the right and the responsibility to make the decisions relating to the health, education, and welfare of a child." (Fam. Code §3006.)
  • Joint physical custody: Each of the parents shall have significant periods of physical custody. Joint physical custody shall be shared by the parents in such a way so as to assure a child of frequent and continuing contact with both parents, subject to [Fam. Code §3011] and [Fam. Code §3020]." (Fam. Code §3004.)
  • Joint legal custody: Both parents shall share the right and the responsibility to make the decisions relating to the health, education, and welfare of a child." (Fam. Code §3003.)
  • Primary Physical Custody: A term that is frequently utilized to describe joint custody arrangements. Although useful in settlement contexts, it is a term that has no legal meaning.

How Hard is It to Get Full Legal Custody in California?

It is challenging for a parent to request total custody order in California. That parent must have compelling evidence and reason to convince a California court to agree to full custody in the child's best interest.


(a) If a party is absent or relocates from the family residence, the court shall not consider the absence or relocation as a factor in determining guardianship or visitation in either of the following circumstances:

(1) The absence or relocation is of short duration and the court finds that, during the period of absence or relocation, the party has demonstrated an interest in maintaining guardianship or visitation, the party maintains, or makes reasonable efforts to maintain, regular contact with the child, and the party's behavior demonstrates no intent to abandon the child.

(2) The party is absent or relocates because of an act or acts of actual or threatened domestic or family violence by the other party.

(b) The court may consider attempts by one party to interfere with the other party's regular contact with the children in determining if the party has satisfied the requirements of (a) above.

This rule does not apply to either of the following: (1)  A party against whom a protective or restraining order has been issued excluding the party from the dwelling of the other party or the children, or otherwise enjoining the party from assault or harassment against the other party or the children; or (2) A party who abandons a child.

The court usually issues a temporary custody while the divorce or custody action occurs. 

The finalized divorce decree or custody order will normally establish a permanent custody order. 

Family law matters are often the most contentious aspect of divorce or paternity cases. We at Richard Ross Associates understand this fact, and we know that when the welfare and well-being of your child are at stake, there is little you would not do.

Difficulties arise when the parties with a dispute cannot agree on what will be in their child's best interests. It is usually because one or both parents make child custody decisions based on their own self-interest rather than the children's best interests.

At Richard Ross Associates, we encourage parents, as much as possible, to keep their children out of the crossfire of the parent's emotional and financial disputes with the other parent.

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Statutory Priority for Custody Award

Custody should be granted in the following order of preference according to the best interest of the child as provided in [Fam. Code §3011] and [Fam. Code §3020]:

  • To both parents jointly, or to either parent. In making an order granting custody to either parent, the court shall consider, among other factors, which parent is more likely to allow the child frequent and continuing contact with the noncustodial parent, consistent with Sections 3011 and 3020.
  • If to neither parent, to the person or persons in whose home the child has been living in a wholesome and stable environment.
  • To any other person or persons deemed by the court to be suitable and able to provide adequate and proper care and guidance for the child
  • The court shall not consider the sex, gender identity, gender expression, or sexual orientation of a parent, legal guardian, or relative in determining the best interest of the child.
  • Family Code §3040 establishes neither a preference nor a presumption for or against joint legal custody, joint physical custody, or sole custody, but allows the court and the family the widest discretion to choose a parenting plan that is in the best interest of the child.

At What Age Does a Child Decide Custody in California?

In California, a child must be at least 14 years old to state a custodial preference unless the judge believes doing so would be detrimental. 

The courts consider and give weight to a child's life when the child is "of sufficient age and ability to voice an intelligent opinion on custody or visitation."

According to California family law code 3042:

    "(a) If a child is of sufficient age and capacity to reason so as to form an intelligent preference as to custody or visitation, the court shall consider, and give due weight to, the wishes of the child in making an order granting or modifying custody or visitation.

 Richard Ross Associates knows how complicated child custody cases can become. We see the extent to which some parents will attempt to obtain custody of their children, even if it is not in their children's best interests. 

Our firm strives to help you to protect your parental rights and obtain the outcome you feel is best for your children.

Protecting Your Child's Best Interests

When it comes to child custody cases, the primary concern of the court is always the best interests of the child. At Richard Ross Associates, we understand the importance of ensuring your child's well-being and happiness. Our experienced Westlake Village child custody lawyers are dedicated to advocating for your parental rights while prioritizing the needs and wishes of your child.

Our team is well-versed in the laws and regulations surrounding child custody in Westlake Village, California. We will work diligently to gather evidence, build a strong case, and present compelling arguments to the court on your behalf. Whether you are seeking sole custody, joint custody, or modifying an existing custody arrangement, we will provide you with the guidance and representation you need.

When you choose us as your child custody attorneys, you can expect:

  • Compassionate and personalized legal advice
  • Thorough understanding of California custody laws
  • Strategic negotiation and litigation skills
  • Clear communication and regular updates on your case
  • Strong advocacy for your parental rights

Don't navigate the complexities of child custody alone. Contact Richard Ross Associates today to schedule a consultation and let us help you protect your child's best interests.

Contact us for a consultation with a child custody lawyer in Westlake Village. Call (805) 777-1011 today.


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  • This is very important: If you have separated from your spouse before one of you has filed for dissolution of marriage or legal separation, avoid agreeing to and placing into effect a temporary parenting plan arrangement regarding the children unless you will be able to live with this arrangement after the divorce papers have been filed. Once you begin a parenting plan that seems to be working, it becomes the "status quo." It is very difficult to convince a mediator or judge to change the status quo, especially if it is working or appears to be working and is not detrimental to the minor children.
  • If you have not received a judgment dissolving your marriage before the end of the year, you may file an individual tax return under the status of "married, filing separately" or a joint tax return with your spouse. You should consult your accountant as to the advantages of these options. You may obtain special information booklets regarding tax information for divorce or separated individuals from your local IRS office or read the IRS booklet online.
  • To file an action for divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, a person must have resided in the state of California for six months and in the county where the action is filed for three months prior to filing the petition in court. This is true of either the petitioner or the respondent - either person can meet the test and allow a filing. If your spouse meets the residency requirement, you can file even if you do not meet it yourself.
  • The court can and usually will order you to move out of your residence if your spouse convinces the court that you have been violent toward your spouse or threatened your spouse. You could be given ex-parte notice to be in court the next day because your spouse is seeking an order to make you move out and stay out. You can be ordered to leave immediately and not return even if your spouse is not on the property title or lease agreement! Once you are ordered to leave, it is not likely that you will be allowed to return.
  • Before you get a divorce, photocopy all relevant financial documents that you can obtain and store them off-site with a trusted friend or relative. Do not store them in the trunk of your car where they can easily be found and removed by your spouse. There may be both personal and strategic reasons not to tip off your spouse that documents are being reviewed for a possible dissolution proceeding. Make copies of documents that you find in the residence and return the original documents to their original location as soon as possible so that your spouse won't notice that they are missing. It is often advisable to make the photocopies when you are sure your spouse is away for an extended time, such as during a workday. It is advisable to gather as many relevant financial documents as possible while they are still available and before they have been removed or destroyed by your spouse. This will significantly reduce the cost of divorce litigation if the documents do not have to be recovered later. It will also permit us to get a true picture of all community assets and debts as soon as possible.